The Family That Cares

Sermon Notes:


1. God’s people are called to address societal issues.

2. The primary responsibility for care rests with the family.

3. The person being helped must also take some responsibility.

4. We must focus on solving the person not the problem.



Questions for further thought or discussion:

  1. Besides the elderly, what are some other modern day issues the body of Christ should be addressing?
  2. What do you believe the biggest factor in the breakdown of the nuclear family has been?  How should the church address these issues?
  3. What do you think the reasons are for God wanting those being helped to take some responsibility in their condition?  Do you think people by nature will take advantage of others?
  4. Do you think that the focus should be on solving the problem or the person?  Why or why not?



1 Timothy 5:3-16  

Honor widows who are truly widows. But if a widow has children or grandchildren, let them first learn to show godliness to their own household and to make some return to their parents, for this is pleasing in the sight of God. She who is truly a widow, left all alone, has set her hope on God and continues in supplications and prayers night and day, but she who is self-indulgent is dead even while she lives. Command these things as well, so that they may be without reproach. But if anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.

Let a widow be enrolled if she is not less than sixty years of age, having been the wife of one husband, 10 and having a reputation for good works: if she has brought up children, has shown hospitality, has washed the feet of the saints, has cared for the afflicted, and has devoted herself to every good work. 11 But refuse to enroll younger widows, for when their passions draw them away from Christ, they desire to marry 12 and so incur condemnation for having abandoned their former faith. 13 Besides that, they learn to be idlers, going about from house to house, and not only idlers, but also gossips and busybodies, saying what they should not. 14 So I would have younger widows marry, bear children, manage their households, and give the adversary no occasion for slander. 15 For some have already strayed after Satan. 16 If any believing woman has relatives who are widows, let her care for them. Let the church not be burdened, so that it may care for those who are truly widows.